indian holidays & a not-so-sweet indian-spiced coconut sweet (burfi)

so, here you are
too foreign for home
too foreign for here.
never enough for both

-Ijeoma Umebinyuo

When we first arrived in Canada in the 70s, we did not celebrate our Indian holidays with much fanfare. Perhaps, it was because as a young Gujarati community we lacked our own temple, or perhaps it was the financial limitations we faced, or maybe it was simply because in our new country, certain ingredients required to make our special foods were unavailable. Nevertheless, my parents would reminisce about how they had celebrated these holidays back at home. But come that special day, off we would go, to school and work, as if it were an ordinary day, with only the feeling that something fundamentally important was missing from our lives over and above a few ingredients in our pantry.the not-so-sweet indian spiced coconut sweet (burfi) | conifères & feuillus

Nevertheless, my parents made sure that we did celebrate our new holidays; those imposed on us by our newly chosen homeland. As a child, I loved decorating our Christmas tree, or searching for Easter eggs on a given Sunday morning. Yet, as I grew older, I realized that these holidays were not really ours. We were Hindu after all, not Catholic nor Protestant as the school boards would require us to choose between. These holidays started to feel like something borrowed; something to be used temporarily but never to be owned.the not-so-sweet indian spiced coconut sweet (burfi) | conifères & feuillusPresent day, the Indian community here in Canada is quite sizeable and within communities throughout the country, Indian holidays no longer pass quietly. Furthermore, ingredients for an Indian pantry are readily available not only in the many local Indian shops but the larger chain supermarkets as well. As for myself, I  have come to be equally proud of both my Indian heritage as well as my Canadian identity and balance both with ease and no longer feel a need to fit into any one mold. Being in an inter-racial marriage, I’ve also happily inherited the holidays that had once felt borrowed.

From time to time, when I look at my beige children, I realize that they are as out of place as I had been. They don’t belong to any particular race, but the difference here is that I don’t want them to feel as if they need to. At the very fundamental level, they are quite simply children of this world, being taught to respect and love despite race, colour or creed.fthe not-so-sweet indian spiced coconut sweet (burfi) | conifères & feuillusWith Diwali approaching at the end of the month, here is my take on the classic Indian sweet known as coconut burfi (or nariyal ki burfi). Indian sweets are not meant to be eaten in copious amounts as done in North America with let’s say chocolate. Nevertheless, even one small bite of an Indian burfi is often too sweet for my Westernized taste buds. But aside from the overwhelming sweetness, I love the flavours of Indian confectionery, be it the cardamom, the jaggery or the rich flavour of caramelized milk.  So the only way for me to enjoy Indian sweets is to make my own with the sweetness level turned down a notch. Perfect also if you are trying to reduce your sugar intake. Of course, it still does not mean that we should eat these by the bowlfuls!the not-so-sweet indian spiced coconut sweet (burfi) | conifères & feuillus

the not-so-sweet indian spiced coconut sweet (burfi) | conifères & feuillus

the not-so-sweet indian spiced coconut sweet (burfi) | conifères & feuillus

Indian-Spiced Coconut Sweets (or Coconut Burfi)

(Yields about 40 balls)

  • 2 cups fresh shredded coconut (not including the thin brown skin)*
  • 1 cup milk
  • 1 cup 35% cream
  • 1/3 cup sugar
  • 2 tsp freshly ground cardamom
  • 1-2 tbsp coconut oil (optional)
  • 1/4 cup medium grade desiccated coconut for decorating (optional)
  1. In a large stainless steal saucepan, combine the coconut with milk and cream.
  2. Use immersion blender to purée shredded coconut, milk and cream mixture, the best you can. (You can omit this step, but I find it gives the burfi a creamier texture.)
  3. Stir in sugar and cardamom.
  4. Simmer on medium heat, stirring to ensure that it does not burn, until the mixture is thick (no liquid remaining). (It takes me about 50 minutes… I know it is a long time to have to stand by the stove, have some good music on, it helps.)
  5. Stir in coconut oil to add a more intense coconut flavor (optional).
  6. Refrigerate for a few hours. Once cooled, roll mixture between the palms of your hands into small balls (about 2 cm diameter). Coat each ball with desiccated coconut if using. Keep refrigerated for up to 1 week.

* One coconut will yield about 2 1/2 to 3 cups of shredded coconut.


26 thoughts on “indian holidays & a not-so-sweet indian-spiced coconut sweet (burfi)

    1. I hope you will be able to find some fresh coconut. These are worth the try. Be sure to shake the coconut and make sure there is still water in it … that’s the freshness test! I agree with you about the sugar. After a while, you get use to it and the reduced sugar tastes just as good as the original.

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  1. These look beautiful, so pearly white. I can totally relate with having to cut down on sugar for traditional recipes…I guess back it the day the sugar would help preserving the sweets a little bit longer. It sounds as a great excuse to try and shred a coconut myself, because (I must confess) I have never tried it. Beautiful pictures too 🙂

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    1. Thank you! If you do manage to get a coconut, do be careful. They can be difficult to crack open… my husband does it using a hammer and a strong whack… I can never manage this on my own.

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